The Vice of State Sanctioned Marriage.

"It won't happen to me.  I'm not a jerk.  If I love her and treat her well, remain faithful, there's nothing to worry about.  She loves me.  She wouldn't lie to hurt me. She wouldn't deny our children their father.  She'd never lie to a judge.  She'd never use our children as bargaining chips.  She'd never bleed me completely dry or send an innocent man to prison.  She'd never use false allegations to extort money from me."

To any young man who reads this, I urge you to google the name Chris Mackney - or look for anyone else with a similar story.  HE won't be hard to find. I guarantee someone just like him lives within a mile radius of your living room.  Mackney killed himself, but before he did so, he left you a message, a message that his ex-wife and a  family court don't want you to read. Do it now before his final words - a cautionary tale, written with gut wrenching anguish and left for your benefit - are stricken from the face of the earth.  A man's final desperate words, any man's final words, are no longer his own, if he has made the mistake of entering into a state sanctioned marriage.  You have a right to your words.  Don't sign that away for anything.

You don't have to do this.  You don't have to risk falling into this pit.  No, it might  not happen to you, but could very well happen to you and there's nothing you can do to protect yourself from it once you've entered into that contract.  Why would you do it?  Why would you enter into a contract in which you have NO RIGHTS, a contract that is overseen by a system of law that has no interest in justice, or the greater good, but only money, and lots upon lots of it and it's all legal-like fella.  Don't be a fucking TOOL.  You don't need to add to this tragedy.  The keys to your own autonomy are in your hands, and all you have to do is say "no".