I'm going to gear this entry toward the heterosexual and bi/poly sexual MGTOW because if you are a male, sleeping exclusively with men, you really only fall into one of the categories of risk I'm going to be talking about, and that would be std's. Yes, I suppose false rape allegations and actual rape, should also be a concern, but the imbalance of risk with regard to gender bias and politics are not really a factor. In other words there is no danger of being discriminated against based solely on the fact that you have a penis - your sexual preference is a whole other can of discrimination.
So how does a MGTOW deal with sex and sexual desire, you ask? However he sees fit with the moral caveat that his sexual activities do no harm to himself, or to anyone else - with one important exception and that is "Ghosting", or "fuck and flee" or however you want to refer to it. A MGTOW, by definition, is never under any obligation to engage in any kind of interaction with anyone beyond what the MGTOW sees fit, and that includes after sex. My recommendation is that if/when you do interact with women sexually, you be completely upfront about the transient nature of this interaction from the very beginning. No need to be ashamed or fearful of your intentions - you're a MGTOW, you own and control your own fate.
Yes, this will thin the herd enormously - if that is a salient concern, then MGTOW is probably not for you. Some of the herd that remains will pretend to be cool with that and still be offended when you vanish before their very eyes. But if you've been upfront about your intentions, clear about your purpose, then you have every right to simply not give a fuck if some one's feelings get hurt.
And let's be clear about "hurt feelings", and what that means in most cases when your disappearing act is perceived as a "rejection". I'm convinced that the feelings associated with the "rejection" are not universally experienced or understood. For some "rejection" means genuine disappointment or even a sense of loss, for others it is more like an insult, for others it is a blow to the ego, and yet others a combination of some or all of these. Society at large (and feminism only reinforces and encourages this) has determined that it is unacceptable for men to experience the emotions evoked from "rejection" - it is "unmasculine" to feel and certainly react, or emote, openly as a result of those feelings - in fact, feminists believe that it is dangerous for men to have these emotions. It's exclusively a man's job to be rejected and it's a man's job to not be affected by rejection. MGTOW rejects (or should reject) that notion. Rejection is for everyone and in equal measure. In light of this a MGTOW should refuse to take any special consideration based on gender.
So yes, a MGTOW can still sleep with a woman who doesn't identify as a prostitute and maintain his autonomy and be true to his lifestyle, but the risk is inherent and cannot be denied - in either case, really.
The risks inherent with having sex - before, during and after:
STD's, Pregnancy, False rape allegation, Defamation/and or Black mail, being Stalked, harassed, vandalized, or even physically assaulted either directly or by proxy.
So what to do if the risks are too much to bear?
Don't.
Believe it or not, it is possible for the rational mind to trump the libido. Technology and the ever increasing number of ever improving "alternatives" to sex, in the flesh, will only make it easier for reason to prevail in the future.
I'll discuss the strategy of abstinence in the next entry. Until then, I leave you with this:
Jingle Jangle Jingle
~Kay Kyser
Yippie yay
There'll be no wedding bells for today
I got spurs that jingle, jangle, jingle
(Jingle, jangle)
As I go ridin' merrily along
(Jingle, jangle)
And they sing, "Oh, ain't you glad you're single"
(Jingle, jangle)
And that song ain't so very far from wrong
(Jingle, jangle)
Oh, Lillie Belle
(Lillie Belle)
Oh, Lillie Belle
(Lillie Belle)
Though I may have done some foolin'
This is why I never fell
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